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对于孩子来说，新的生命意味着她的一些权力被剥夺了。所以，孩子是嫉妒引发的恨意。担心成人对自己的关爱被剥夺，孩子内心是恐惧的，是焦虑的。这样的行为往往不容易被他人认可，孩子也因此更加陷入了苦恼中去。恐惧和担心这对任何人（即使是成人）来说都是不容易摆脱的心理压力。而孩子的理智受到了身体发育的限制，没有成人的思考能力，所以，更是无力摆脱这种担心。孩子的所作所为是希望成人能关注自己，能表达对自己的爱意，能保护自己让自己不再担心。
成人往往看不到本质，会担心孩子对小妹妹的伤害，会担心孩子品质变坏，也就会用更不支持，责备的态度来对待孩子，让孩子的恐惧加剧。成人的态度，尤其是至亲的态度可能会让孩子背负一辈子的心理枷锁。

对于孩子的担心要多去关注。正面表达，比如，当孩子发脾气的时候，家长要陪伴她，倾听孩子，你担心妈妈爱小妹妹不爱你了？妈妈是会永远爱你的。家长要接纳孩子会出现这样的情绪，这是正常的，不能说明孩子本质变坏了。妈妈看到你很伤心，因为你担心大家不喜欢你了。等等。

另外，孩子很羡慕小妹妹被细心招呼。妈妈可以和她每天晚上做一些游戏。比如，临睡前和孩子说说她小时候的事情，按照对待婴儿的方式来被妈妈抱在怀里，亲吻，抚摸。。这会让孩子感受到自己是可爱的。是被照顾的，

当孩子的担心能够有所减少时，孩子表现的过激行为也会缓和下来。

其他亲人也要多理解孩子，毕竟她还小，不经意的关注她，她会非常开心，也会帮助她认识到自己一直被爱，树立起自信心来的。

This product is a desk stand with cartoon animals for cellphone. It could receive calling messages and shines to show it.
Light bright decorations which looks like diamonds on this stand give it a modern taste and design to it.Once your cellphone being called , all the decorations on the stand are shining with beauty!
不要信他们翻译的，那是找软件自动翻译的。错误百出，手机座都没有翻译出来，我去手机网站查了，是DESK STAND。

Body language

Although we may not realize it when we talk with others we make ourselves understood not only by words. We send messages to the people around us also by expressions and body movements.we call it "body language ",which is a kind of communication,noverbal communication.A smile and handshake show welcome ,Waving one's hand is to say"goodbye", nodding the head means agreement,while shaking it means disgreement .Putting up a hand means"May I ask a question?". Kissing means"love". Waving one's arms show happiness.These gestures are accepted both by Chinese and Americans as having the same meanings.

Because culture influences communication.Different country has different culture.So the way people in different countries communicate is different too.FOR EXAMPLE, Arab man often greet by kissing on both cheeks.In Japan men greet by bowing .In the Unite States, people shake hands to show"their greeting". And the gesture of putting a hand on a person' neck is different for Chinese and Americans. For Chinese,it is to say"someone will be killed". For Americans, it shows"I'm full” .And in Thailand, If you want to signal a person to come near, you should move the fingers back and forth with palm down.But in the United States, you ask someone to come by holding the palm up and moving the fingers towards our body. And crossing one's legs in the United States is a sign of being relaxed. But in Korea , it's not allowed. In Chinese,people hand everything with both hands to show their respect,but for Muslims,they think the left hand is unclean and do not eat or pass something with it.

Because of special culture influences some counties, some body languages should attract our attention. In Turkey , putting one's hand in one's pockets is a sign of disrespect,In some Asican countries, you must not touch the head of another person. And in China, people don't kiss or hug each other ,except hisher lover. For an Arab, it is a good manners to stand close to his friend when they are talking, but for English people, they don't like to be close to one another.And in parts of Asia, you must not sit with your foot pointing at another person.

All above show that it is important to know the meaning of gestures and movements in foreign country, foreigners should follow these customs, should learn their culture. So we can communicate with them in a correct way, not only by words, but also by body language. I think that it is important in our lives to show and learn body language ..